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The German dominatrix Auguste Grafin Strachwitz in 1909.
The German dominatrix Auguste Grafin Strachwitz in 1909.

A dominatrix (from the Latin dominatrix, meaning a female ruler or Mistress; plural dominatrices or dominatrixes) or Mistress is a woman who takes the dominant role in bondage and discipline, dominance and submission or sado-masochistic sexual practices, which are commonly abbreviated as BDSM. Top or dominant is the label used to describe a partner who takes the active or controlling role within a BDSM scene, or within a BDSM relationship In the context of BDSM, bondage involves people being tied up or otherwise restrained for pleasure Discipline is the use of rules and punishment to control overt behavior in BDSM. Dominance and submission (also known as D&s, Ds or D/s) is a set of behaviors customs and rituals relating to the giving and accepting of dominance of Sadism refers to Sexual or non-sexual gratification in the infliction of Pain or humiliation upon or by another person The male equivalent is Master. In BDSM, Master is one of the honorifics some people use to describe the dominant partner or "owner" in a Master/slave relationship. A common form of address for a submissive to a dominatrix is "Mistress", "Ma'am" or "Maîtresse". The terms top, bottom and switch are used by many people including Heterosexual and LGBT people BDSM practitioners and others in Note that a dominatrix does not necessarily dominate a male partner; a dominatrix may well have a female submissive.

The term "Domme" (pronounced /ˈdɒm/) is a coined pseudo-French female variation of the slang dom (short for dominant). There is confusion on its pronunciation, with some pronouncing it identically to dom and some pronouncing the final e as a second syllable, e. g. saying dom-MAY or DOM-may. The correct pronunciation is identical to dom, by analogy to one-syllable French-derived words like femme or blonde.

Older woman-younger man relationships are much more common in female dominant relationships than among vanilla couples. Female dominance (or Femdom) refers to BDSM activities where the dominant partner is female the submissive partner may be of either sex Vanilla sex (or conventional sex) is a description of what a culture regards as standard or conventional Sexual behaviour.

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Professional versus lifestyle dominatrices

See also: Female dominance
Beardsley: Flagellation club in London, 1895.
Beardsley: Flagellation club in London, 1895. Female dominance (or Femdom) refers to BDSM activities where the dominant partner is female the submissive partner may be of either sex

The term dominatrix is often used to describe a professional dominant woman (or pro-domme) who charges money to engage in fantasy play with submissive clients. The terms top, bottom and switch are used by many people including Heterosexual and LGBT people BDSM practitioners and others in In reality most dominatrices are not professionals, but lifestyle dominants. Top or dominant is the label used to describe a partner who takes the active or controlling role within a BDSM scene, or within a BDSM relationship A lifestyle dominant is a person who is assertive and in control of their relationships both inside and outside the bedroom.

Two professional dominatrices interviewed.  Go here for the full transcript.
Two professional dominatrices interviewed. Go here for the full transcript.
French dominatrix Maîtresse Françoise.Photo courtesy of Annick Foucault.
French dominatrix Maîtresse Françoise. Published works Françoise Maîtresse (in French - Editions Gallimard - ISBN 2070738345
Photo courtesy of Annick Foucault.

Women who engage in female domination recreationally are known as dommes, dominatrices, mistresses, or simply dominants. A high percentage of dominants are lifestyle dominants, but some simply play the dominatrix role because it is a high-paying profession. It is common for professional dominatrices who are also lifestyle dommes to have both paying clients and a "personal slave or sub" or slaves or subs, who are not paying clients. A personal slave will typically perform a domme's housework and run errands for her. A personal slave may or may not live with his or her Domme. A slave in this relationship has no rights or limits. A sub, has. Professional dominants most frequently do not engage in any form of sexual contact with their paying customers, as this can be construed as prostitution in some places. Outside of their life as a pro-Domme, they may engage in sexual behavior with a devoted slave or sub or not, as they choose. A common form of domination involves chastity where a dominant controls her slaves' sexual access, sometimes keeping them locked in a chastity device except for rare occasions. Chastity is Sexual behavior of a man or woman acceptable to the ethical norms and guidelines of a culture civilization or Religion.

The stereotyped image of a dominatrix is of a woman wearing a rubber or leather catsuit and thigh-length boots with high heels or, in a more elegant and teasing mode, black lingerie, stockings and high heels, or some combination of these two alternatives. A catsuit is a skin-tight one-piece garment usually with long sleeves and leggings mostly used in Fashion, fetish and Erotic context Thigh-length boots, known also as thigh-high boots or simply thigh boots, are Boots that extend above the knees Lingerie is a term for fashionable and alluring women's Undergarments It derives from the French word linge, "washables" — as in faire le linge Many professional dominatrices do indeed wear similar outfits for their work in order to meet client expectations. However, for non-professional dominatrices or Mistress, the question "What does a dominatrix wear?" was best answered by the Australian dominatrix Sarah~{owner of slave kylie; note the lower-case "k") when She said, "Whatever I like!"

Dominatrices in popular culture

Professional dominatrices at a BDSM dungeon in New York City.
Professional dominatrices at a BDSM dungeon in New York City. This page is about BDSM play for other topics see Dungeon (disambiguation. The City of New York

Fictional dominatrices

In novels and short stories


In films

On television

In comics

In games

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Dominatrices in media

Mistress sitting on a rack in an S&M dungeon.
Mistress sitting on a rack in an S&M dungeon.

Dominatrices in music

See also

Books

References

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Dictionary

dominatrix

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  1. A dominating woman; a female dominator.<ref name="COED-pron&defs">The Concise Oxford English Dictionary [Eleventh Edition]</ref>
  2. A dominant female in sadomasochistic practices.<ref name="COED-pron&defs">The Concise Oxford English Dictionary [Eleventh Edition]</ref>
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